Finding pure, deep, genuine, once-in-a-lifetime kind of love is definitely not a smooth journey. In fact, the road to this kind of love can be quite bumpy and curvy. Yet, this doesn’t mean that it’s impossible to find it.
The true, deep love you’ve been searching for is out there waiting for you to find it. And the only obstacle that stands in your way is that his kind of love requires a lot of patience. Unfortunately, there are many people who jump from one relationship to another just for the sake of being in a relationship or out of fear of loneliness or boredom.
But starting a relationship with someone just because you think being single will make you feel lonely, bored, or miserable is wrong. That’s not the reason why you decide to commit your time and attention to someone. That’s not the reason that causes you to create a deep emotional, mental, and spiritual bond with someone. That’s not real love.
Because love which is pure, deep, and genuine never hides behind loneliness, boredom, or fear. And the one that does only brings sadness and despair to those involved. It leaves them broken-hearted and desperate.
That’s why it’s always better to stay single until you find a man whose soul is aligned with yours. A man that will wear his heart on his sleeve and show you how much you mean to him. A man who will be able to touch parts of your soul that no one has ever touched. A man who will choose you every day and prove that you didn’t make a mistake choosing him.
Stay single until you find a man who will do these 8 things:
1. Stay single until you find a man who will keep his promises.
You deserve to be with a man who has integrity and is always true to his word. A man who will call you when he says he will. A man who will take you out on a dinner when he promises, not bail out on you in the last minute because his friends invited him to go to a party with them and he couldn’t say no to them.
You deserve to be with a man who will keep his promises, no matter how big or small, and who will make you his priority.
2. Stay single until you find a man who will miss you when you’re not around.
You deserve to be with a guy who will be crazy in love with you and enjoy spending time with you, not someone who won’t care whether you’re around or not. You deserve to be with a guy who will call to ask you if you’re okay and how you spent your day or just to hear your voice when you’re not around.
Stay single until you find a guy who will let you know how much he misses you when you’re not close to him, and, most importantly, who will make you feel that he really means it.
3. Stay single until you find a man who will wear his heart on his sleeve.
When a man is truly in love, he shows that not only through his words but through his actions as well. He’s not ashamed or afraid to wear his heart on his sleeve and show his vulnerabilities to his woman.
So, stay single until you find a man who will treat you with kindness, compassion, dignity, and a lot of love and affection. A man who will make you feel like you’re the happiest and most loved and important woman on the earth. That’s the only type of man you should let into your heart.
4. Stay single until you find a man who will be willing to solve your relationship problems.
You deserve to be with a guy who won’t sweep your relationship problems under the carpet. Instead, he’ll be willing to talk out every issue you come across in your relationship. Similarly, when you have an argument, he will give his best to ensure you and he reach a solution to it that will be the most reasonable and best for both of you.
And when he’s said or done something that has hurt your feelings, he won’t accuse you of being too sensitive or dramatic or put the blame on you. Instead, he’ll admit to his mistakes and apologize to you. And he will do all these things not because he’s a mature, responsible man, but because he truly cares about you and wants to keep the relationship he has with you.
5. Stay single until you find a man who will be proud of you.
The guy who shows he’s proud of everything you are and everything you do is worthy of your attention and love. You deserve to be with a guy who will talk about you with admiration and joy in his eyes to his family and friends. A guy who will be happy for you when you achieve your goals and make your dreams a reality, but also challenge and motivate you to pursue higher goals.
You deserve a guy who will be proud of you for who you are. A guy who will love you with all your insecurities, fears, and imperfections. A guy who will let everyone know how proud and happy he feels for having you in his life.
6. Stay single until you find a man who will stand up for you.
When a man is truly in love, he goes out of his way to ensure his woman feels safe and protected. He doesn’t let anyone criticize her or make her feel unworthy in his presence. He is not afraid of walking through fire to protect her from anyone who would try to hurt her feelings. The only thing he’s afraid of is losing her.
And, of course, when a man is deeply and sincerely in love, he makes sure he doesn’t put himself in a position to do something that would break his woman’s heart.
7. Stay single until you find a man who will make you feel amazing in every way.
You deserve a man who will make you feel happy, emotionally fulfilled, loved, and respected. A man who won’t make you feel like you’re wasting your time and energy on him because he’ll prove he deserves them.
You deserve a man who will be aware of all your qualities, both outside and inner beauty, and worth. But, most importantly, you deserve a man who will make sure you’re aware of your own value as well.
8. Stay single until you find a man who will prove worthy of your love.
Be alone until you find a man who will treat you like no other guy has ever treated you. A man who will make you feel in ways like no other guy’s ever made you feel. A man who will prove to you that he’s not with you because he’s looking for some fun or wants to fill some voids in his soul, but because you occupy a special place in his heart.
Source: Curious Mind Magazine